Written by contributing blogger, Daniela Forte. Are you married? Do you have kids? Those are the two most asked questions a woman in her 30s and younger are asked these days. All the time. There aren’t any questions about whether we love our careers or are we even happy with our lives. Those questions are hardly if ever ...
Do people change?
I've heard many times from folks, on TV, etc that "people don't change" --- that down in their core they're always going to remain the same. If they're stubborn, they will remain that way. If they're selfish, they won't adapt to the positive. To some extent I believe that to be true. If someone has ...
Too little, too late
There was a day, when a friend jeopardized our friendship by creating distance through unanswered calls, little to no texts, and not even the regular holiday or birthday messages. It's unfortunate when friendships fade, but what happens when that person tries to re-enter your life? Do you let them? In my opinion, it depends on the ...
Take Out the Garbage in Your Life
Written by contributing blogger, Daniela Forte. I am not just talking about the garbage under your sink (well maybe that too) I am talking about the garbage you have allowed (yes, allowed… because we do ugh) in your life. What is the garbage? It’s the negativity that surrounds you. It’s the bad talk you say to yourself ...
Don’t let the past rule your future
The problem many of us have is that we compare our past to our present, and what our future may hold. Yes, it's great to learn from our past, but it shouldn't dictate what we do and how we evaluate things going forward in every respect. So what makes sense and doesn't? Learn from the ...
How much of yourself are you willing to lose?
In our relationships, our jobs, our daily lives, there are many things commanding our attention, asking for our time, to choose things besides our own preferences, and leaving us little time for ourselves and what we may want too. It sucks our energy, and part of ourselves each day. But how much is enough? And ...
why you shouldn’t regret anything
Why are regrets such a pain...? Regrets take up time and toxic energy. They make us self doubt and self blame ourselves for things that are no longer ours to control. They're already in the past. It's time to move on. Regrets consume us, and take us away from priorities and better times that could bring us ...
Would you rather be a lifetime movie or a hallmark movie?
Well let's think for a second....lifetime movies are typically a little outrageous whether it's psychotic nanny, jealous significant other, kidnappers, and so many other crazy scenarios you dream will never be something you encounter or live through yourself. And then there's Hallmark...a cycle of love stories told from one inn owner or cupcake maker to a ...
When one door slams, don’t look for that window…
As the saying goes "when one door closes, another open", or even a "window." That's pretty great because who wants to keep waiting for the closed door to open again? But can we help ourselves? Sometimes we wish it would crack just a little to let part of us back in, even just a window. ...
An Alternative Ending in our Life Stories
Written by contributing blogger, Daniela Forte. Have you ever watched a movie or a television show and thought, “It would have been great had it ended this way, versus the way it did?” You think about how great that alternative ending could have been had the director or producer just gone in another direction. Life is kind ...